My First Gift from God

The night was very quite, husband was fast asleep..I was holding you in my arm and my mind was crumbled with thoughts...My lifestyle has changed after the arrival of my new born, confinement period has became my worst period of life, I cut short my hair for easier nursing, I trimmed my nails to avoid hurting your gentle skin and my body shape has changed too...

But when I was holding you in my arm, I gently stroked your forehead, I can feel your warmness, your naive ness, your purity...I felt you are the best gift from god and you are my root-life, nothing is more important that you, nurturing you and seeing you grow day by day has became my top priority and my passion of life!

Living a life without a passion is like living a life without a soul, living a life without a soul is like living a meaningless life, living a meaningless life is like living a deadly life..

While living a life with passions give you strength and energize you to reach out high, when you have strength, it helps you in seeing things in different perspectives and it generates positive energies and will eventually bring the best out of you!

The Wedding Bell

I was listening to our wedding march's song, it reminds me of all those sweet moments, once in a life time moments...we were holding hand, firmly...walking down the aisle, I can feel my heart was beating very fast...

In a blink of eyes, we have been married for 8 years, I am very thankful that our love grows stronger each day.. We have moved to the deeper level of love which consists efforts, commitments, mutual respects and responsibilities. 

There isn't any lifetime warranty for marriages and I believed the warranty is lying under all the efforts and commitments and the owners are the husband and wife themselves. Many times when a marriage isn't working well, the blame always goes one sided which I strongly believed it goes both ways, there is a Chinese saying 'you can't clap with your single palm'.

My ex-boss once told me marriage is an education which I can't agree more, there are many subjects such as socializing (living together), financial planning, parenting, in-law management, sex, motherhood, fatherhood and many more. I am not sure I am at which level of marriage but I believed throughout the years I've passed some and failed some subjects and if you believe in 'The Law of Attraction' which I am strongly believe in and always have the end result in mind, i believe a happy marriage definitely will lead you to a happy family!